“The world is so arranged that there will always be people in it who will behave incorrectly. We will always encounter situations in which other people behave “wrongly”. This is inevitable. There is nothing you can do about it. And you just need to accept the fact that such people exist. We should not internally make the presence of such people and situations in the world our personal tragedy. But thinking badly about people is the most effective way to make them that way. So the rule is simple: if you want problems, draw in your mind a negative image of everything you have to deal with - people, institutions, yourself. Because first you draw this thing, and then the image you draw begins to dictate your own nature to you.”